Nothing prepares us for the unexpected. That is, unless you’re a mom. We find out along the way that raising kids will put the “I thought of everything, so what could go wrong?” mentality to shame in a heartbeat. And therefore, anticipation now runs through our veins.

As a ’90s kid, being stuck in Metro Manila traffic was far worse back then. With today’s new thoroughfares, routes and exits, going on trips with the kids in tow thankfully takes less time, and we’re blessed with smoother roads at that. Nonetheless, as every mother knows, there’s always room for an untoward incident that could leave us stranded in bumper-to-bumper traffic for one reason or another. Through the years, maternal instincts and acquired wisdom have taught us to factor in as many essentials we can think of just in case.

Gel urine bags. These are a handy essential in case the chance of a bathroom break anytime soon would be slim to none. Since it turns the fluid into gel form, it simplifies the handling for disposal. These can be easily purchased online. It would be good to pack barf bags and a roll of medium-sized garbage bags so you’re prepared for the “number twos and threes” and beyond—because with kids, you just never know.

Hand sanitizer and disinfectant spray (or wipes). Keeping all hands and car surfaces spotless after cleaning up the mess is a self-explanatory must.

First-aid kit. It goes without saying that each vehicle needs to have one. Make sure to pack the usual medications your family members need. One example would be the right brand of inhaler for asthmatic children, or antihistamines for those with allergies.

Portable fire extinguisher. It’s better to be safe than sorry. Long hours on the road can cause electrical or engine issues, as we have seen in multiple vehicles that catch fire during heavy traffic lately.

Snacks and water tumbler. Nonperishable food like granola bars, dried fruit, dried meat, chips, and salt crackers are good choices to curb the hunger pangs while stuck in the car for longer than intended. Hydration is even more important so make sure to fill up those trendy tumblers that keep water cold for an extended period.

Pillows and blankets. Keeping the kids calm and comfortable during a gridlock situation will surely de-escalate the chances of irritability and restlessness. When there’s nothing left to do, at least sleeping it off is an available option.

Car games. If you don’t have one, make one up. When all else fails, keep the kids in good spirits through engagement.

In a car with kids, boredom, discomfort, and hunger are the likely enemies. And you can rest assured that the mothers come prepared. We may not have it all covered, but whatever happens, we’ll take care of it. So, cheers to us and have a Happy Mother’s Day!

NOTE: To all fellow VISOR moms, what other gridlock hacks have you come up with? Please share away.